Arielle Ford is a relationship expert, and also the woman who help launch several prominent authors and experts like Deepak Chopra, and Jack Canfield.
She is a love coach who teaches people how to take charge of their romantic destiny, to help them create the love-of their life relationship.
I like this book. It´s a classic in the field of soulmate finding. The soulmate secret is a formula for attracting the love of your life, and if you already have it, and not working the way you want it, is to make this relationship into your soulmate relationship.
Personally, I am working myself on manifesting my soulmate, so actually, this is a great book to read for me now. Do you believe in soulmates? Do you believe there is someone really special just for you?
I believe so. I believe it’s possible. I don’t care what people say about this modern age. I believe emotion doesn’t change.
Your soulmate is out there, somewhere. The universe can help you find this person.
Arielle shows how you can work yourself into your soulmate through prayer, exercises, meditation, writing and other tools. You can work yourself into manifesting this person. This is the whole soulmate secret idea.
It´s based on the law of attraction, which states that we draw to us, the people, events, and circumstances that match our inner state of being. In order words, we tend to attract experiences that are consistent with our beliefs.
Finding true love is possible for any person at any age, if you are willing to prepare yourself and do the work, to become an energetic match for the love you´re seeking.
Here are some of the most important points I learnt from this awesome book:
- What is a soulmate? Someone you share a deep and profound connection with, and feel as if you can be yourself. Someone who you love unconditionally and who loves you unconditionally. A soulmate is someone who complements you.
- DEEP BELIEF:
You can do all the wonderful internal and external work recommended in the book, but unless you have a basic premise or believe that true love is possible in your life, nothing will happen. The step before the first step is a deep believe that there is a soulmate for you, in fact many possible ones, that you can and you will manifest yours. Until you develop this inner confidence on this possibility, most likely you will not manifest this person into your life.This book is a way to feed and reinforce this belief, the belief that is possible, that you can have this type of love in your life.—————————————
- Stop negativity: Become aware of your blocks and limiting beliefs.
In order to accomplish this the first step is to eliminate the negativity, the self-limiting beliefs, the things, both internal and external that prevent you from manifesting your true love in your life. Beliefs like, “all the ones are taking”, or “I will never be able to manifest this person”.
Simultaneously, Make your intention very clear while you clear out the clutter in your mind, your heart and your home.
Whatever negative belief you have that prevent you from manifesting your biggest expression in your life, your biggest love, your biggest possibilities. This is your biggest obstacle in manifesting this person into your life.
You have to undo these statements and ideas.
You have to dig deep and observe yourself because some of this blocks you have them and you don’t even realize. These are kind of your blind spots.
Some of the challenges to manifest this person are:
1. You don’t believe you deserve a great relationship.
2. You don’t love yourself.
3. You have a lot of emotional baggage.
Affirmations like these are the ones blocking you,
-I am too old
-I am too fat
-I am not successful enough
-All the good ones are taken
- “Feelingizations” is a term Arielle created to explain how just visualizing is not enough for her, it´s not the image that attracts the situation but the feeling you have. You have to feel in every cell in your body the outcome you want to create in order to begin to draw it towards you. The feeling holds the power to attract, as she says.This is basically like a capsule in space and time; in which you are already living what you want to create or manifesting your life. You are living as if the experience already happened.You can listen for free going to this link, these are great to erase and eliminate self-limiting negative beliefs and blocks, http://www.soulmatesecret.com/audio to get them for free. These are great.
- What would you have to believe in order to manifest your soulmate?
Here are some powerful ones, repeat this 7 times,-You were born to be loved, cherish and adored.
-The right partner is magnetizing to me now.
-I am attracting my soulmate now.
-I am grateful for the healing in my heart.
-I completely forgive myself and others from past actions.
- Its your job to be ready, willing and open to receive your soulmate´s love. This is probably your most important job. There is not so much for you to do but more important for you to be, the person who already is receiving the soulmate.
- CRITICAL BELIEF:
This is one of the most important beliefs you can have,
”Believing that your soulmate exists, that you are deserving of him or her, and that the universe is skillfully orchestrating your meeting”
- TRASURE MAP: Create a treasure map with pictures that represent what you want, you can get them digitally, or physically, from magazines and other places.
There is tremendous power in making a clear declaration that YOU ARE READY TO ATTRACK YOUR SOULMATE, and that you are willing to ready yourself for this.
In order for this, start by cutting toxic emotions from past relationships, anger, resentment. Clear yourself from these in order to open up the space for your soulmate.
- Readiness is not about completing projects, but about developing that inner stillness that lets you listen to your intuition that offers you the right direction and actions to take. Listen to that underlying vibration.
- PREPARE your home for your soulmate.
Create empty space for this person to appear. Imagine you are dating your soulmate, and this person is planning to move in, what would you do?How would you arrange your home for this person? Doing this accelerates manifesting this person because it creates a vacuum. The universe always tries to fill-up vacuums.
- LIVE AS IF. This is one of the most powerful ideas in the law of attraction. When you live as if you already have something, you are creating this experience in your life in the now.Instead of wanting, you are living it. This means stepping outside of your current reality and living the new reality.For the next 15 minutes, live as if you already had your soulmate in your life. Play this game just to see the difference how you would feel and act if this person would be in your life already.Give thanks for having this person already in your life.Close your eyes, connect and talk to this person.
My take on the top 10 ideas and actions you must take to manifest your soulmate….
MOST IMPORTANT EXERCISES:
- Eliminate the negative beliefs, mental and emotional clutter from your life. Listen to the free audios Arielle offers, soulmatesecret.com/audio
- Make the decision to be ready for this person. Welcome this person into your life. SET THE INTENTION AND FOLLOW IT WITH ACTION.
- Create a list of your soulmate and release it to the universe, the traits necessary, the optional, what’s important to you and not so important, as well as the lifestyle you will be living with your soulmate, what will you do, where will you live, etc.
- Write a letter to this person. Date it. Write a letter being so thankful for being in your life. You can write more letters regularly.Additionally, write letters to yourself. You can do this greatly in my TotalSuccess App, download it at turboday.com . Write constantly to yourself, about your challenges, blocks, your dreams, and review your soulmate list and commitment.
- CLOSE YOUR EYES, and connect with your soulmate as if this person is in your life already, talk to this person.
- Get your home ready for this person, create space for this person.
- Give thanks often for having this person into your life as well as for all the blessings
- Live as if you already where enjoying your ideal relationship with your soulmate. Step out of your reality and into living a new reality.
- FEEDING COURAGE:
Read, watch and listen to material like the soulmate secret so you mind is constantly absorbing and feeding that possibility back into your life. Dedicate 30 minutes a day or whatever time you consider appropriate for this. WITHOUT CONSTANTLY FEEDING YOU MIND POSSIBILITY, THE NEGATIVITY WILL CRAWL INTO YOUR LIFE.
- Enjoy the waiting. You are planting and it will take some time for fruit to grow, but if you feed them regularly they will grow and your soulmate will manifest into your life. Don’t be desperate. Be patience. Let this person unfold into your life at the right time. The happier and the more you enjoy life, and live your purpose, the sooner this person will appear physically into your life. Enjoy the waiting and grow. Fall in love with yourself.
This is a great book by Arielle.
“I have found that if you love life, life will love you back”
“Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life”
“Where there is great love, there are always miracles”
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